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Why do some girls deliberately put exposing pics online

Posing and Exposing-

It’s a cheap technique to feel accomplished and boost one’s ego.

Very little women understand that this ‘attention’ will do them more harm than good.-

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I want to answer a couple questions I’ve been asked recently about why girls sometimes dress provocatively and also about how guys sometimes brag about the girls they are with.

Both touchy subjects, but I hope that in the process of honestly answering these questions we will all learn what it means to relate to each other in a healthy way.

I hope my answers will help give you more self-love and confidence.

So here was the first question from Michael:

“Why do girls dress so provocatively one minute, then complain that guys are superficial the next?”

This is a difficult question with many sides to it.

One part of the answer is that some girls feel confident if they receive attention for the way they dress.

It’s nice to be noticed.

Often girls even dress to impress other girls, maybe even more than guys.

But for many girls it’s even more important to fit in.

Many young women feel it is social suicide to try to stick out in the crowd or wear something no one else is wearing.

So if all the girls are dressing in short skirts and low-cut shirts, they better do it as well, they think.

Sometimes the styles may be more provocative than a girl feels comfortable wearing, but due to peer pressure, she will wear it anyway.

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Some girls might not even realize that how they are dressing can affect guys.

Don’t get me wrong, some girls know exactly what they are doing, but some are just wearing what they think looks good.

Since guys are sexually driven by what they see, it becomes easy for them to objectify women based on how they are dressed, but that doesn’t make it right.

What message are you sending?

So please know ladies that what you wear often sends a message…whether you intend it to or not.

If you are flaunting your body, guys will be tempted to come after your body.

However, if you advertise who you are on the inside, with such traits as kindness, gentleness, sensitivity, great personality, etc., they will be drawn to you for that.

Guys, it is important to realize most women want to be loved and respected for who they are on the inside.

It’s just the lies of the culture regarding how best to attract men confuses things.

As a guy, when you compliment a girl you have an opportunity to tell her she’s beautiful, without expectations on what her response should be.

Women often want to be thought of as beautiful, but they don’t want to be disrespected. That’s a fine line, but I believe it’s possible for mature guys to walk that line.

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